Choose the addressee and purpose
A command can give an instruction, invitation, warning, or piece of advice. Its social effect depends on the relationship and situation, not just the verb ending. This lesson’s familiar singular commands use tú. Many regions use vos with different forms, and respectful usted uses another pattern; those are not mistakes to be corrected into tú everywhere. State the addressee when practicing so the target is clear. The subject pronoun is usually omitted because the command addresses the listener directly. Por favor can soften the wording, but it does not make every large demand considerate. Decide what action you want and how directly the situation calls for expressing it.
Abre la puerta, por favor.
Open the door, please, addressing one familiar person with tú.
The command addresses the listener directly with the familiar singular form.
Espera aquí.
Wait here, addressing one familiar person with tú.
Espera is the affirmative familiar command of esperar; it needs no subject pronoun.
Build regular affirmative tú commands
For regular verbs, the affirmative tú command matches the third person singular present form: habla, come, and vive. This is a useful form relationship, not a change in who is addressed. The command still addresses the listener as tú. Present stem changes remain in commands such as cierra or vuelve. Do not build the command by simply keeping the ordinary tú present form ending in s. Work from a known verb family and check whether the verb belongs to the common irregular command set. In a practical instruction, include the object or destination when the action alone would leave the listener unsure what to do.
Come despacio.
Eat slowly, addressing one familiar person with tú.
The affirmative command come matches the third person singular present form, but it still addresses the listener as tú.
Cierra la ventana.
Close the window, addressing one familiar person with tú.
The stem change appears in the affirmative command.
Retrieve the frequent irregular commands
Several common affirmative familiar commands are short irregular forms: di, haz, ve, pon, sal, sé, ten, and ven. They come from decir, hacer, ir, poner, salir, ser, tener, and venir: say, do, go, put, leave, be, have, and come. Learn them in useful instructions rather than assuming a regular ending will work. The accent on sé, the command of ser, distinguishes it from the pronoun se. The form ve can also be the command of ver, “see,” so context identifies the verb. These shared spellings are a reason to read the whole instruction. When you later negate an irregular affirmative command, you must still select the appropriate subjunctive form instead of merely adding no.
Haz la tarea.
Do the assignment, addressing one familiar person with tú.
Hacer has the irregular affirmative command haz.
Sé paciente.
Be patient, addressing one familiar person with tú.
The command of ser is written with an accent: sé.
Use the subjunctive for a negative command
An ordinary negative tú command uses no followed by a present subjunctive form. Regular ar verbs use the es ending, while regular er and ir verbs use as. The negative is therefore not built by placing no before the affirmative command, and some stems and spellings change as well. A useful pair is habla and no hables. Keeping both sides of the pair together makes the contrast visible. The subject is still the listener, even though the form differs. This lesson concentrates on the familiar singular pattern; broader subjunctive uses and other command persons require their own agreement choices.
No hables tan rápido.
Do not speak so fast, addressing one familiar person with tú.
The negative command uses present subjunctive hables.
No abras la caja.
Do not open the box, addressing one familiar person with tú.
The regular ir verb uses the negative command ending as.
Build a negative from its own pattern
Tell a familiar person not to eat here.
- The task is negative, so do not keep affirmative come.
- Use the present subjunctive form comas for tú.
- Put no before the verb.
No comas aquí.
Attach an object to the positive command
In an affirmative command, an unstressed object pronoun is written attached to the verb. The combined word follows ordinary accentuation rules, which may require a new accent to keep the original stressed syllable. The pronoun still reflects the object, not the addressee. In look at it, the understood you is the person receiving the instruction, while it is the thing looked at. Identify those roles before selecting the pronoun. When two object pronouns are attached, keep their correct order and the se replacement of le or les before a third person direct object. Do not insert spaces or a French style hyphen inside the Spanish attached word.
Míralo.
Look at it, referring to a picture (el cuadro) and addressing tú.
The direct object attaches to the command and the accent preserves stress.
Dímelo.
Tell it to me, addressing one familiar person with tú.
The recipient and direct object attach in that order after irregular di.
References for this explanation
Move the object before a negative command
A negative command places the pronoun before the subjunctive verb. No precedes the entire group. A reflexive pronoun follows the same placement contrast: levántate becomes no te levantes. In both, te refers to the same listener; only its written position differs. Unlike French, the pronoun does not change to a stressed form just because it follows a positive command. Practice transforming the whole instruction instead of editing one word at a time. You need to change both the verb form and the pronoun placement while preserving the requested person and object.
Use the positive and negative versions of the same practical instruction as a pair. Starting from Abre la caja, first replace the named object: ábrela. Then prohibit the action: no la abras. Three things must remain coordinated: the intended object, the command form, and the pronoun’s position. Checking only the spelling of the attached version can miss the larger construction change needed in the negative.
No lo mires.
Do not look at it, referring to a picture (el cuadro) and addressing tú.
The object precedes the subjunctive command inside the negative group.
No te levantes todavía.
Do not get up yet, addressing one familiar person with tú.
The reflexive pronoun stays before the negative command form.
Transform a reflexive instruction
Turn Siéntate into a negative familiar instruction.
- The reflexive pronoun still refers to the same listener.
- Move te before the verb.
- Use the negative command form sientes after no.
Compare your reasoning
No te sientes.
Select a request when a command is too direct
You can ask for action through a question with the modal verb poder, “can,” and an infinitive rather than a direct imperative. An object pronoun can attach to the end of that infinitive, or it can go before the form of poder. Respectful commands such as espere use forms different from familiar espera, so make the address choice deliberately. The difference is not a universal ranking of good and bad manners: a recipe, an urgent warning, and a favor between strangers have different expectations. In the challenge, the cue names the requested construction. In your own production, explain why that construction fits the relationship and task. This makes grammatical control useful for a real exchange rather than a collection of isolated orders.
¿Puedes abrir la ventana?
Can you open the window, asking a familiar person through a modal question?
The modal carries person agreement and the requested action stays infinitive.
Espere aquí, por favor.
Please wait here, addressing one person as usted.
Respectful singular address selects espere rather than the familiar affirmative form.
Notice the difference
Common mistakes
Check the construction
Instead ofAbren la puerta, por favor.
For this meaningAbre la puerta, por favor.
The plural indicative form does not express the requested familiar command. The command addresses the listener directly with the familiar singular form.
Preserve the intended meaning
Instead ofNo abre la caja.
For this meaningNo abras la caja.
This does not form the requested familiar negative command. The regular ir verb uses the negative command ending as.
Place each element carefully
Instead ofNo míralo.
For this meaningNo lo mires.
Both the affirmative attachment and affirmative verb form need to change. The object precedes the subjunctive command inside the negative group.
From understanding to using
Make your own example.
Try these without answer choices. Say your answer aloud or write it below, then compare your reasoning with the model.
Your turn 1
Tell a familiar person to open the book (el libro), then tell them not to open it. Use a pronoun in the second instruction.
Compare with a model
Abre el libro. No lo abras.
Open the book. Do not open it.
The negative changes the form and places the object before the verb.
- Did you change the verb form?
- Did the pronoun preserve the book’s gender?
Your turn 2
Ask one familiar person to get up. Then use a respectful modal question to ask another person whether they can wait.
Compare with a model
Levántate, por favor. ¿Puede esperar un momento?
Please get up. Can you wait a moment, using respectful address?
The first is a reflexive imperative; the second uses a finite modal and infinitive with respectful singular agreement.
- Did you write the accent that the attached form needs?
- Did the second verb stay infinitive?
Put it into practice
Make the next choice.
Choose a response and learn why it works. Your score reflects your first answer to each question. You can revisit anything you miss.
Choose an answer, then open the explanation to check your reasoning.
Question 1
Choose the sentence for this message: Open the door, please, addressing one familiar person with tú.
- Abre la puerta, por favor.
- Abren la puerta, por favor.
Check the answer
Answer: Abre la puerta, por favor.
Abre la puerta, por favor.: The command addresses the listener directly with the familiar singular form.
Abren la puerta, por favor.: The plural indicative form does not express the requested familiar command.
Question 2
Choose the sentence for this message: Wait here, addressing one familiar person with tú.
- Esperas aquí.
- Espera aquí.
Check the answer
Answer: Espera aquí.
Esperas aquí.: This is a present indicative form rather than the requested ordinary command.
Espera aquí.: Espera is the affirmative familiar command of esperar; it needs no subject pronoun.
Question 3
Choose the sentence for this message: Eat slowly, addressing one familiar person with tú.
- Come despacio.
- Comes despacio.
Check the answer
Answer: Come despacio.
Come despacio.: The affirmative command come matches the third person singular present form, but it still addresses the listener as tú.
Comes despacio.: The ordinary tú indicative ending is not the requested imperative form.
Question 4
Choose the sentence for this message: Close the window, addressing one familiar person with tú.
- Cerra la ventana.
- Cierra la ventana.
Check the answer
Answer: Cierra la ventana.
Cerra la ventana.: Cerra is missing the stem change: the tú command of cerrar keeps the ie of the present tense.
Cierra la ventana.: The stem change appears in the affirmative command.
Question 5
Choose the sentence for this message: Do the assignment, addressing one familiar person with tú.
- Haz la tarea.
- Hace la tarea.
Check the answer
Answer: Haz la tarea.
Haz la tarea.: Hacer has the irregular affirmative command haz.
Hace la tarea.: Hace is the present form for él, ella, or usted. Hacer has the irregular tú command haz.
Question 6
Choose the sentence for this message: Be patient, addressing one familiar person with tú.
- Se paciente.
- Sé paciente.
Check the answer
Answer: Sé paciente.
Se paciente.: The missing accent changes the written form into a different grammatical word.
Sé paciente.: The command of ser is written with an accent: sé.
Question 7
Choose the sentence for this message: Do not speak so fast, addressing one familiar person with tú.
- No hables tan rápido.
- No habla tan rápido.
Check the answer
Answer: No hables tan rápido.
No hables tan rápido.: The negative command uses present subjunctive hables.
No habla tan rápido.: The affirmative command form cannot simply be kept after no.
Question 8
Choose the sentence for this message: Do not open the box, addressing one familiar person with tú.
- No abre la caja.
- No abras la caja.
Check the answer
Answer: No abras la caja.
No abre la caja.: Abre is the affirmative command and also the present form for él, ella, or usted. After no, a tú command needs the present subjunctive abras.
No abras la caja.: The regular ir verb uses the negative command ending as.
Question 9
Choose the sentence for this message: Look at it, referring to a picture (el cuadro) and addressing tú.
- Míralo.
- Mira lo.
Check the answer
Answer: Míralo.
Míralo.: The direct object attaches to the command and the accent preserves stress.
Mira lo.: The attached pronoun must be written as part of the same word.
Question 10
Choose the sentence for this message: Tell it to me, addressing one familiar person with tú.
- Dílome.
- Dímelo.
Check the answer
Answer: Dímelo.
Dílome.: The two object pronouns are in the wrong order: me, the recipient, comes before lo.
Dímelo.: The recipient and direct object attach in that order after irregular di.
Question 11
Choose the sentence for this message: Do not look at it, referring to a picture (el cuadro) and addressing tú.
- No lo mires.
- No míralo.
Check the answer
Answer: No lo mires.
No lo mires.: The object precedes the subjunctive command inside the negative group.
No míralo.: Both the affirmative attachment and affirmative verb form need to change.
Question 12
Choose the sentence for this message: Do not get up yet, addressing one familiar person with tú.
- No levántate todavía.
- No te levantes todavía.
Check the answer
Answer: No te levantes todavía.
No levántate todavía.: The negative instruction cannot keep the affirmative reflexive construction.
No te levantes todavía.: The reflexive pronoun stays before the negative command form.
Question 13
Choose the sentence for this message: Can you open the window, asking a familiar person through a modal question?
- ¿Puedes abrir la ventana?
- ¿Puedes abres la ventana?
Check the answer
Answer: ¿Puedes abrir la ventana?
¿Puedes abrir la ventana?: The modal carries person agreement and the requested action stays infinitive.
¿Puedes abres la ventana?: The action after this modal cannot be another finite present verb.
Question 14
Choose the sentence for this message: Please wait here, addressing one person as usted.
- Espera aquí, por favor.
- Espere aquí, por favor.
Check the answer
Answer: Espere aquí, por favor.
Espera aquí, por favor.: This uses the familiar command rather than the explicitly requested respectful address.
Espere aquí, por favor.: Respectful singular address selects espere rather than the familiar affirmative form.
Keep the conversation going
What to practice next
Write instructions for a simple shared task, then convert one into a negative and one into a modal request. In the choice challenge, commit to one answer before opening feedback. Explain the rejected sentence, then retry missed questions. Return tomorrow and write a fresh example without looking at the models.
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Sources
- Bowdoin College, Enrique Yepes: Commands
- RAE and ASALE, Diccionario panhispánico de dudas: tú
- RAE and ASALE, Diccionario panhispánico de dudas: usted
- RAE and ASALE, Diccionario panhispánico de dudas: voseo
- Bowdoin College, Enrique Yepes: Subject pronouns and present tense
- Bowdoin College, Enrique Yepes: Stem changes
- Bowdoin College, Enrique Yepes: Present subjunctive forms
- RAE and ASALE, Diccionario panhispánico de dudas: tilde
- RAE and ASALE, Diccionario panhispánico de dudas: se
- Bowdoin College, Enrique Yepes: Articles and negation
- Bowdoin College, Enrique Yepes: Object pronouns
- RAE and ASALE, Diccionario panhispánico de dudas: pronombres personales átonos
- Bowdoin College, Enrique Yepes: Reflexive constructions
- Bowdoin College, Enrique Yepes: Questions
- Bowdoin College, Enrique Yepes: Gerund and infinitive
Learning research behind the practice
Worked examples, retrieval practice, and later review inform the activities. These studies do not establish the effectiveness of this specific lesson.